Poverty and me

poverty-and-meI indicated in my first post that I felt drawn to more involvement with vulnerable people and people caught in poverty. They often tend to be the same people. This blog post is trying to explain a couple of things that have influenced my view on poverty.

One of the things that was clearly evident to me when we were living in Calgary was the disparity between rich and poor. I walked to the office every day (about 20 minutes) to the center of the city and essentially the center of the oil industry in Alberta. No shortage of money there. Along the way I would pass the homeless who would be camped out along 10th St. hoping for a bit of spare change. I wasn’t in the habit of tossing toonies because I don’t see that as a sustainable solution. But I did know where some of the local shelters were so I could direct people to them, and I would take the time to get to know the names and stories of the people I encountered. I learned that there are no simple answers to the challenge of poverty. Even in -30 weather there were some who would choose to sleep on the street rather than take a chance on getting assaulted or robbed in a shelter. Some were paranoid to the point where the only place that felt safe was the street. Mental health issues abound. One guy in particular was a regular on my travel path. When he disappeared for a while I was concerned that something had happened to him but, when he reappeared a few weeks later, he told me that he had gone to stay with his sister. He ended up back on 10th St. because life with his sister “just wasn’t my thing”. The street had become home to him.

Another experience that influenced my view of poverty. In the spring of 2015 we had an opportunity to spend 10 days in Haiti. The disparity between rich and poor there is stark. There are essentially 2 separate economies in that country. I came away from that experience struck by the irony that existed there; the only slave colony to “successfully” revolt. Everyone in current day Haiti was a prisoner. The poor who live in their prison of poverty, and the rich who live in their cages. It was pretty clear to me that that level of disparity is bad for society as a whole. Another thing that was clear to me was the harmful impact that being a net recipient of aid had on the economy and the psyche of a whole country. Poverty is their biggest export is the way one good friend put it to me.
That affirmed for me that, in any circumstance, both rich and poor must be partners in finding solutions. As rich people and countries, we tend to take the easy way out, pouring money into situations without always considering the overall impact. Well meaning, just not well thought out. And I say it’s the easy way out because it is easier than investing the time and effort required to walk alongside people and finding solutions together.

These experiences have shaped my philosophy around the right way to “be the change” when it comes to helping the poor. When Jesus said “from whom much is given, much is expected” He was not talking only about money. We have all been gifted in some way and that includes the poor. In everything I get involved in, I am looking for ways to contribute my gifts, whatever they are. And I’m trying to make it my going-in position to expect the same from all the stakeholders.

Thanks for sharing this journey with me.

Success to Significance

p1000990I’ve been reading a recommended book called From Success to Significance.  It describes a turning point, a shift from focus on career/business success and the practical need to provide for a family etc. to doing something significant.  That is not to suggest that supporting a family or developing a career is not significant.  But, for many of us, the practical reality of those responsibilities meant having to defer the pursuit of passions or interests.  And we all have those passions and interests.

It occurred to me that there have not been many generations (in fact ours may be the first) where individuals can reach a point of economic independence (retirement/business success) and still have capacity (skills, experience, resource) to do something significant with a reduced requirement for the same pay cheque that was needed while working.

So what to do with that residual capacity?  We could spend our remaining years golfing or fishing but, for many of us, that will not be satisfying for the many years that could potentially be left.

The US election highlighted a reality that I have been bemoaning for some time.  There are so few competent leaders.  Among the many characteristics of leaders is to “speak truth, bring hope”.  What I saw in the election campaign was a strong tendency to speak lies, bring fear.  Any substantive policy discussion seemed to be abandoned in favour of the exchange of insults that was often painful to watch.  It was a race to the bottom that looked anything but presidential.  And now we are beginning to see echoes in the Conservative leadership race that are disturbing.

Our generation so badly needs a revival of leadership that is based on the Ultimate Moral Authority, not the relative morality of reality TV.  Perhaps our burden as the generation of Success to Significance, is to be that change, to be the voice of reason in the many contexts within which we find ourselves in leadership roles.  I would be happy to explore what that might look like with anyone who is interested.

Wilderness

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Figuring out my next role will be a journey. I’ve decided I want to focus on vulnerable and marginalized people in our society and the things I think are interesting are things that resonate with that theme.   I am interested in organizations that are providing leadership in issues that concern the poor, issues like food security, affordable housing, access to education….. all things that are a long way from the world I have spent the past 36 years in.  So there are a lot of times I find myself “out standing in my field”.  Literally, alone, and standing in the middle of nowhere, disconnected from what I’ve known and not connected to anything new yet.  It is humbling to say the least. It was not that long ago that I was the guy sought out for my expertise, respected by my peers (in my mind anyway), and the guy that contractors looked to for direction.  Now I’m the new guy in pretty well every context I’m in and having to start at ground level.  I am, after all, learning about a whole new sector.

So, I soldier on.  My process has been to reach out to people that appear to be doing retirement well and who are engaged in something I think might be interesting.  That process has resulted in a number of great conversations and connections.  It is also opening up a wide world of  unscripted opportunity that can be bewildering.  And, since I don’t have the confines of my job to keep me between the rails, I often find myself reacting to things, a bit like a pinball.  That is personal management that I just need to re-learn.

I am convinced that networking is going to be my best way forward and I take some comfort in the fact that I’m not alone.  There are a lot of us who have reached retirement with a few good miles left.  Hey, maybe there’s an opportunity there………